The pseudo-wisdom is at the peak of the popularity now. I have given birth to the child — I became an expert in the field of pediatrics and pedagogics, I have read the clever book about business — I have drawn conclusions on all Universe. And all right all would keep this knowledge base around — so isn't present, don't feed some with bread, let's advise as it is necessary to live. And most councils of such importunate pseudo-wise men not only don't help, but also prevent "recovery".
10 most useless advice which to you for certain already somebody gave. Or perhaps you and practice it? Stop!
To depreciate own experiences also harmfully, as well as to plunge into them. Always there are people to whom it is at first sight worse, than to you. But it is not an occasion to stick a nose in others life and due to similar contrast to lift own self-assessment.
There is a wish to switch? Then it is worth helping the one who really needs it. But before it be convinced that you professional beggars don't "part".
If this advice is given to you by the classmate before examination, then it is possible and to listen. If in your family dissonance then to release a situation = to neglect everything. Here, of course, it is possible and to be overzealous, dragging the husband on compulsory weekly consultations to the family psychologist. But if you don't accept life of your family, begin with yourself — without expectations that your changes will estimate at once.
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Only the doctor and only after analyses can give the recommendation to drink vitamins. Recommendations about sports food has the right to give only the sports nutritionist. Juice, of course, can be advised. Only, besides, acidity of a stomach at all different, and it is useful to drink juice one morning, and to another — heartburn for a week.
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Purchases can really distract from experiences, but the visit behind them of the companies of the girlfriend is much more useful, it is desirable cheerful. Here main not a dress, and process. If you begin to wander alone about shopping center, it is better for you will definitely not become and the risk of spontaneous purchases which will even more upset then is too high.
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It is fine if your interlocutor — the psychologist, and after this phrase he to you still outlines several options of study of experience of last mistakes and methods of forgiveness of and others. If it is told by your friend car mechanic or the girlfriend accountant, then this council just empty and useless.
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Seriously? And it is so possible? Even the adviser knows that if not to gain up to the end if not to reach to the bottom this pain, then there is nothing will be to make a start to return to normal life. Therefore can only be the best answer to such recommendation "And you have no normal council?"
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Besides, there is no belief to the person who has read 2 clever books and now imposes methods from them to all around. Here as with vitamins: strategy need to be selected under each concrete organism. If you could leave off smoking thanks to the book, then another will twist at a temple, but will be impressed with the movie about livestock production and will stop eating meat. Strategy have to advise those who possess information on many of them, and not just on couple of possible methods.
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"Even if you were eaten, you still have 2 exits" — advisers, probably, heard nothing about this popular wisdom. It is much simpler to argue on fate, than with own hand to forge the happiness. Only night, as we know, is the most dark before dawn and if you really seek to reach the dream, it is necessary to collect will in a fist and to think up new ways, roundabout ways, to become the pioneer, but not just to passersby.
Neither in the sphere of the relations, nor in a question of search of the mission this council isn't applicable — unless will help with work of the design manager. If you feel that you go not in that direction if you don't like that, what do you do, yourself needs to stop and ask a question just: whether and whether there I move also with that the person? Life at us one and to stop "on to think" extremely important that in old age not to regret for the missed opportunities.
And what councils seem to you absolutely useless? Or, maybe, you and something sin with similar? Admit comments.
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